tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-73115137693118995552024-03-07T16:11:15.057-08:00A mocking bird's medleyAhem..Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-75542676184852782732009-10-18T14:21:00.000-07:002009-10-18T14:23:45.482-07:00Gyaan from Negotiations ProfYou can not control your feelings,<br />But you can control how you behave.Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-43194908344440837062009-05-24T22:16:00.000-07:002009-05-24T22:19:00.359-07:00You know..that someone truly loves you, when they are hurt when you are in pain..and when they sound delirious with joy when you are happy..and that truly, is something special:)!Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-85010081645880910672009-01-30T04:07:00.000-08:002009-01-30T04:11:41.150-08:00Sometimes..you wish time would stand still..and things don't change..ever..<br /><br />But again..sometimes..<br /><br />you wish things would change..for the better..Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-76273677423066154372008-10-01T06:32:00.000-07:002008-10-01T06:35:52.443-07:00Randomness - IIDo you care that I care..<br /><br />And do I care that you don't..Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-85121578440815421832008-09-22T10:27:00.000-07:002008-09-22T10:32:26.483-07:00Randomness - IHave you ever met someone you wish you'd never met..cause you simply don't like them..<br /><br />Have you ever met someone you wish you'd never met..cause you simply can't live without them..Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-18731898451882070772008-09-03T12:45:00.000-07:002008-09-03T12:47:12.155-07:00Who decides..<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">What is right and what is wrong? And should a punishment be so strong that it could possibly ruin the future of a young, budding student just to prove your point? Dear readers, if there are any i.e., I want you to pass this on to as many people as you could..</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">Jacob Kurian, Semester Vth student of SRM University , Chennai happened to go to a senior’s room to borrow a book (his exams were around the corner) when they were ragging a junior. The seniors actually slapped that poor kid and Jacob was unfortunately present at that time. And guess what, as he didn’t go “report” this incident to the authorities, he has been suspended for a year. One whole year!</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""> </span>Honestly speaking, how many of us would get up and go and report such an incident at that very moment? I don’t know if I would. (I want to make myself very clear on the fact that I do not subscribe to any form of ragging.) I know that what happened to the poor fresher was a really bad thing, but to suspend a bright student (Jacob’s GPA: 7.9) for not having gone and reported this case just to prove a point (that the college is very strict when it comes to such things) is simply appalling. His internal exams were one week after he was suspended and he cannot take them. That means the efforts of one whole semester gone down the drain. I want to ask the authorities in question: Is this some kind of cruel joke that you are playing with this child? It is his bludy future you are playing with! Good you show such discipline when it comes to ragging and all, but then there is a thin line between making the “right” or the “wrong” decision.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">His elder brother was in Chennai for two days and tried to convince the authorities (the principal it seems didn’t even look him in the eye and did not meet him) to revoke their decision. He wrote to all the email-ids he found on their website. But it was all in vain, they are adamant.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">I personally know Jacob and I know that he is a good, god-fearing kid who would do no harm. Why should things be so bludy unfair?He is planning to take up a call center job for a year. Now tell me, how much worse can things get?If he applies to a job or for higher education, they will definitely question him and perhaps reject him too on the grounds of his break in education and too because of a case that involved ragging. What did the boy do to deserve this..and that too when he did no harm.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">Could you guys come up with some suggestions which could help the authorities revoke their decidion? Please..thanks a ton<span style="font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="">:)</span></span>!</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-83846144538854051082008-07-20T21:16:00.000-07:002008-10-01T06:38:32.513-07:00Groping Tales<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:10;" lang="EN-IN" ><span style="font-style: italic;">Statutory Warning: Long, serious post ahead</span><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:10;" lang="EN-IN" >It’s a pity that the first entry I’m typing from my super sexy XPS (see, I was never known for my modesty:P) is perhaps my first ‘serious’ post. Literally! I actually wanted to write about something totally different (will duly do that one after this) but this topic sauntered in my mind from no where. While I was at work (haha), this topic sprung up in my mind..perhaps <a href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/Cities/Delhi/10-year-old_raped_in_MCD_school/articleshow/3247609.cms">this</a> is what ignited it. Anyways, I was shifting to another floor today so decided to go back home and write it in peace..Though, on second thought, that was a better time as I was seething with anger then..Anyhoo, let me get down to my thoughts or rather experiences..<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:10;" lang="EN-IN" >I am a female. Brought up in <st1:city st="on">Delhi</st1:city>, moved to <st1:state st="on">Cochin</st1:state> for graduation and presently in <st1:city st="on"><st1:place st="on">Hyderabad</st1:place></st1:city> for work. Why the intro all of a sudden? Well, I don’t know..Perhaps to show that wherever I’ve been, in whichsoever environment, I have been targeted because of my sex. And when I say this, I say this for all the millions of women all over the world. I’m most definitely one amongst the luckier in this group cause I’ve heard and read of so, so much worse happening to poor, naïve, unknowing women. I could perhaps make a record for the longest blog entry ever by adding links to horrific stories on demonic actions carried on women. But I shall refrain myself and stick to something which is a stark reality and something that needs immediate attention. And by immediate I don’t just mean that this is a recent trend. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:10;" lang="EN-IN" >My house was walking distance from school, so I used to walk back from school with my sister. I was in<span style=""> </span>the 4<sup>th</sup> standard and used to have my ‘monitor’ badge pinned on my blazer. We used to live in government quarters back then and had to pass this shoddy local school on our way. A boy, with a group of his friends*, perhaps in the 10<sup>th</sup>-12<sup>th</sup> class range would start a chant of ‘maneater, maneater’ each time I would pass. I can’t exactly remember how I felt at that time. All I know is that I would just scurry past that area and wish to be away from those big boys blocking the way. My sister is just 2 years elder to me so I don’t think her presence/absence made any difference. I thankfully went home and told my parents about this and they talked to a classmate’s mom who would then accompany us till beyond that sad school. I had briefly written about <a href="http://diptea.blogspot.com/2008/05/rain-rain-go-away-come-again-another.html">this</a> here. When I go visiting Ruby’s family there now, I pass that school. Its’ now affiliated to CBSE supposedly (eyes rolling!)..This was the first incident that I can recall of ‘eve-teasing’ for me. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:10;" lang="EN-IN" >I grew up, got used to comments being passed on the roads and mastered the art of keeping the most perfect stoic expression at all such times. I guess it would be disarming and most disappointing for those a%&holes! Fast forward to IIT coaching time. 11<sup>th</sup> standard. I started taking public transport to go for my coaching classes after school. I used to be so scared to miss my stop that I would get up approximately 3-4 stops ahead. I have this memory..I’d gotten up really early as always and was standing near the exit. This guy, not too old, came and literally stuck himself behind me. There was hardly any rush and I was wondering why he was standing so close..pressing himself against me..I was too dumb not to realise then..not to turn around and slap him so hard that he could could have heard bells ringing..oh, it makes me so, so mad..One month in <st1:place st="on"><st1:placename st="on">Gargi</st1:placename><span style=""> </span><st1:placetype st="on">College</st1:placetype></st1:place>(before my admission in B.Tech) had me using the buses again and I think not a single day passed without an attempt to touch, to grope, to tease..But I had become wiser (with experience eh?!) and knew how to avoid being touched. Once I got on an RTV(mini-van) to go back and there was just the driver, the conductor and another male passenger on it. We had reached half-way and this guy started asking me questions..’Tumhara naam kya hai?’(What is your name?)..’College mein padti ho?’(Studying in college?)..’Ghar kahaan hai?’(Where is your house?)..I ignored him. Totally. Didn’t flinch and stared right ahead. My heart inside must have died a thousand deaths. I was shit scared..and there still was quite a distance to where I had to get down at. I prayed..harddd throughout that journey. But all through this, the conductor and the driver didn’t even turn back.And this in a mini-van!<span style=""> </span>They did a better job of ignoring than me..and I can tell you..am goood at it! Bludy (swear)! How, how can someone be so thick skinned as to not come help out another fellow human being..a girl who’s all alone? I was lucky that the loser who was trying to ‘befriend’ me was not a rapist. What if he was? I can only imagine the driver and conductor joining in. I shudder. And thank God.. I never told my parents any of this. Was too embarrassed (can you beat that) and also didn’t want to worry them sick about going alone to college. I can only try not think about what my sister must have gone through in the years she had to travel in jam-packed buses and that too on awful routes.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:10;" lang="EN-IN" ><span style="font-style: italic;">Happy Story</span>: My school friend C had a petite friend who some guy tried to grope on a DTC bus. She turned around..said ‘<st1:place st="on">Saale</st1:place> dash dash’ and gave him one nice tight thapad(slap!) across his face. Ah what joy..yeyyy!!(Accompanied with little dance of joy)<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:10;" lang="EN-IN" >Moving on, after a much sheltered life, I find myself in <st1:state st="on"><st1:place st="on">Cochin</st1:place></st1:state>. Near my hostel, on the way, there was a junction called TD (Take Deviation) which had to be inevitably crossed if we had to go out of campus. Now my ‘local guardian’ (lets’ call him LG) warned me that ‘good’ girls are not to pass TD after 6.30 pm. I was like..WTF! But being new to the place, I meekly agreed. What made me burst with anger was when the LG tells me that I should not wear jeans as it would not help my reputation and just attract unwanted attention. That was it..I was used to wearing jeans..and how on earth would that make me ‘characterless’?Bullshit! Mujhe yaad karte he gussa aa raha hai (Rembering it only makes me angry)..To add insult to injury, I was branded as a ‘Dilli waali’..this very quickly and quite logically equated me to being immoral. Well, honestly speaking, I was more naiive than some ‘seedhi-saadhi’(simple-looking) naadan(native) girls. But I really don’t need to justify this to those hooligans who I had as classmates. Respect for girls is something they weren’t born with and could not acquire in all the years they re-repeated to get into IIT.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:10;" lang="EN-IN" >My group consisted of four of us, all of us had studied outside and were convent educated. We spoke our mind and were not ‘shy and meek’ as the other ‘good’ girls in our class. This I guess was how we were awarded the title of ‘Chameli’ in college. There are some people who ask me why I say college was NOT fun for me..and why I do NOT like talking about it. Yes, I made some friends for life and yes I shared some very good times with them..but if you want to know if I felt even an ounce of pain when I left college..I left smiling..and took very quick steps too. I’m really glad to be out of such a place which had a pack of narrow-minded bas*@#%$. I think I ceased to interact normally..not because of me..but because there was noone normal to interact with. It’s a pity yes, but I believe it made a stronger, bolder person. To f*** with those losers! AC (the only other boy I used to talk to in class) was sitting with me one day and he asked me this question:’Ek baat bata, tumhe log chameli kyun kehte hain?’(Tell me one thing, why do people call you Chameli?)..I pretended not to have heard right..I still remember how my face had flushed that day..could feel it becoming redder and redder..but I remained poised..For those who can’t understand the ruckus behind ‘Chameli’..well,<span style=""> </span>a movie of the same name had been released around the same time where the central character who was a prostitute was named (no prizes for guessing)..Chameli..Then I don’t know how it spread, who propagated the whole thing..but we were known as Chameli by our batchmates..all bunch of losers, with inferiority complexes who had to resort to such cheap measures to attract attention..We were the achievers in college..and quite obviously, this didn’t go down quite well with the MCPs..Apart from the fact that we were hot;-)..and didn’t hang out with them. Case of sour grapes you see:P! DK (one of the four in our group) was ill once and had to be admitted in hospital for a week. The story that was doing the rounds that time was that she went in for an abortion. Now tell me, how gross can it get? Apparently it can. But lets’ not talk about that now</span><span style=";font-family:Wingdings;font-size:10;" lang="EN-IN" ><span style="">J</span></span><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:10;" lang="EN-IN" >.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:10;" lang="EN-IN" >You know, I’m really happy..I wanted to get back at them..someway..and I guess this is one, small way of doing it..And I feel vindicated today..truly! I didn’t know I had the courage to write about any of this..but hey, I did it..lalalala.. And I’m mighty proud of myself. I did no wrong and its’ not a ‘fault’ to be a girl. IF only, each time a guy felt that it was his ‘birthright’ to tease a schoolgirl, molest a child he’s supposed to be take care of or a family friend (yes it happens..alllll the time) or rape an innocent woman, God would strike him dead with a bolt of lighting..I would be at peace..and so would the entire female population..Anyways, I guess that’s like an impossible wish..but what we CAN do is make ourselves aware in a more active way of such horrid truths. Such things would not cease cause the world is not a perfect place to live in. What we can do is confront such situations. Do any of you have any ideas or suggestions? And please don’t give me bullshit about dressing appropriately because a girl in a salwar-kameez or a girl in capris n a tee..is essentially a girl. I know a colleague of mine who has twins..both daughters..aged 7 years..she was telling me the other day how she’s told them to tell her everyday how their day went and they are to tell her if anyone ‘touches’ them as such..which I think is a really good thing..and at the same time something so sad. Sad cause not even a child is safe. Sad cause it can happen when you don’t even know that it is wrong. Sad cause it could happen at any age..and at anytime..Sad cause even ‘well-educated’ people like me can be ignorant..a case being of my close friend from school who was in a relationship with her sister’s friend..After they broke up (thank God for that), she told me that he would make her lie down and press his thing on her..And you know the worst part, I didn’t realise the gravity of what she had told me..I was that silly! OMG..poor, poor thing! Inspite of topping classes we are unaware and ignorant if someone is violating us. Inspite of working at MNCs we let some men (read dogs) get away with outraging our modesty..Because at the end of it all, all that matters is you are the girl..and you will be the one suffering eitherways..Read <a href="http://www.expressindia.com/news/fullstory.php?newsid=50306">this</a>..<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:10;" lang="EN-IN" >Decency and respect towards your womenfolk is something that cannot be taught even after being a professional. I personally, unfortunately encountered this fact at my workplace too..not that I needed much convincing anyway</span><span style=";font-family:Wingdings;font-size:10;" lang="EN-IN" ><span style="">J</span></span><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:10;" lang="EN-IN" >..<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:10;" lang="EN-IN" >I have no idea how to conclude this post..writing it all down (I had more things to write you knw..train travails..but didn’t want to go on for eternity) was supposed to make me feel lighter and better..but no, it did not..cause I know this thing is going to continue..if only there was a way out..<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:10;" lang="EN-IN" >*<span style=""> </span>Akele chuha..jhund mein sher (Like a mouse when alone, like a lion when in a group)<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="line-height: 115%;font-family:Arial;font-size:10;" lang="EN-IN" ><span style="font-style: italic;">PS: I’m scared to have children. How will I protect them and keep them safe at all times?</span><o:p></o:p></span></p>Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com17tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-50850951970812022822008-07-15T01:25:00.000-07:002008-07-15T01:28:59.336-07:00Arrey Wah!<p style="font-family: georgia;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">Wanted to tell you about this brand new..ok, not exactly new..but nevertheless..exceptionally good-looking blog that I saw the other day..You just HAVE to see it..Oh wait, you already are..khee khee..(sheepish grin)..I was, as always..jobless..so I thought lets’ revamp the borin ol’ look..I know this might not be the best..far from it..But I’m happppy..Yay!! The blog’s getting better with age like its’ owner eh?!;-)</span></p> <p style="font-family: georgia;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>You like?</span></p> <p style="font-family: georgia;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>PS: I increased the font size, which spells disaster for me:,-(..Now the posts will look longer..My three devoted readers will aso stop reading now I guess(BIG pout)..</span></p>Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-26256004621119036442008-07-11T01:58:00.000-07:002008-10-01T06:42:04.569-07:00You Better Run For Cover..<p style="font-family: lucida grande;font-family:georgia;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">[Yeah Baby when you see me coming (Yeah!)<br />Yeah you better run for cover (Yeah!)<br />Cos you know when I find you (Yeah!)<br />Yeah I’m gonna be your lover]*2<br /><br />Tujhse log kahenge, na kar pyaar mujhe<br />Main toh lakh bura hoon, neend chura loon, hosh uda doon<br />Main toh baahon mein leke, raah bhula doon, baat bana doon<br /><br />Chahe jahaan hey dil ko chhupaa<br />Baaton hi baaton mein, do mulaqaton mein le Loon<br /><br />Bachna ae haseena lo Mein Aa Gaya<br />Ae Bachna Ae Haseeno, Lo Mein Aa Gaya<br />Husn ka aashiq, husn ka dushman<br />Apni ada hai yaaron se juda<br />Hey Ho!<br /><br />Bachna ae haseena lo Mein Aa Gaya<br />Ae Bachna Ae Haseeno, Lo Mein Aa Gaya </span> </p> <p style="font-family: lucida grande;font-family:georgia;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">Hai Hai Hai..[few more times;)]<br /><br />[Yeah Baby when you see me coming (Yeah!)<br />Yeah you better run for cover (Yeah!)<br />Cos you know when I find you (Yeah!)<br />Yeah I’m gonna be your lover]*2<br /><br />Hey tujhko zamaane ke aage main chedoonga na chhodoonga<br />Aankein churayegi bhi to milaoonga, ja ja kya bahaane banayegi<br />Dekhoonga dil phenkoonga, jhoote moote vaade suna ke fasaaoonga<br />Husn ka aashiq, husn ka dushman<br />Apni ada hai yaaron se juda<br />Hey Ho!<br /><br />Bachna ae haseena lo Mein Aa Gaya<br /><br />Bachna ae haseena lo Mein Aa Gaya<br />Ae Bachna Ae Haseeno, Lo Mein Aa Gaya<br />Husn ka aashiq, husn ka dushman<br />Apni ada hai yaaron se juda<br />Hey Ho!<br /><br />Bachna ae haseena lo Mein Aa Gaya</span></p><p style="font-family: lucida grande;font-family:georgia;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">[Yeah Baby when you see me coming (Yeah!)<br />Yeah you better run for cover (Yeah!)<br />Cos you know when I find you (Yeah!)<br />Yeah I’m gonna be your lover]*2</span></p> <p style="font-family: lucida grande;font-family:georgia;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>Glug..glug(that's silly laughter)..I absolutely loooouve this silly, dumb, corny song..Its’ endearing in a funny sort of way..and boy, do I love the lyrics or what?! And Kishore Kumar lives on..apart from the rap bit that Vishal does..the legendary Kishore makes this song absolutely rockin! Pity his son Sumit can’t match up even a bit upto him..a tastefully done remix. Taaliyan..</span></p> <p style="font-family: lucida grande;font-family:georgia;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>PS: What I wouldn’t do to dance to <a href="http://in.youtube.com/watch?v=9OXBN1A41dI">this </a>song..sigh!</span></p>Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-78795845809709630242008-06-02T22:31:00.000-07:002008-07-14T21:31:16.993-07:00Mora Sayyian<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">It is 12.23 a.m. and the freakin, f#%&ing current decides to go take a stroll. I maintain sanity with <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s9_fji0XeUw&feature=related">this</a> playing..Beautiful..Thank God for mujic:-)</span><span style="font-size:100%;">!</span></p>Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-35384214831430227962008-05-19T23:57:00.000-07:002008-07-14T21:31:42.452-07:00Rain rain go away, Come again another day..<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">It rained here last night..out of the blue. The current went around a zillion times and the fitful sleeper that I am; I hardly slept (pout!). So I had almost declared today as ‘cranky day’ (for me, if I don’t get my 8 hours of sleep {beauty included:P}, I can be a not nice person to know..atleast in the morning:)..but a<span style="">u contraire</span>..I feel happppyyy today:)(If you’re happy and you know it, blog today..clap clap clap clap)..Its’ so much cooler..a definite respite from the sweltering garmi of Hyd..</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>But then, this post is about how I absolutely hate/detest/abhor (bachhpan mein kissi holiday homework ke liye yaad kara tha, had to use it sometime na;)) rains..yes, yes..you heard (read) it right..I am one of a kind afterall..I know many(n-2) people who absolutely louve the rain..but yes, fellow beings, I am one of the chosen few (the second being Bond..not the James waala) who cringes at the thought of rain..today being an exception:)..</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">To make this short and sweet (you see, some guy named noFingWay had left me a comment (which I didn’t quite approve of..huh!) about my previous post saying: ‘Word count.. 660. Who's gonna ever read it?’..I am going to be kind and benevolent to the non-readers of my blog:P and list out why rains don’t amuse this otherwise amiable(cheeky grin) person:</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"> 1) Clothes don't dry. And when they do, they stinkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk (wriggling my tiny, little nose;))!</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"> 2) Its' too eew to walk around..all the slush and kheechad..oh boy, I just hate it!</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"> 3) Tends to get very depressing..can't go out..sitting holed up inside your house..and even when you do need to venture out (cos you have no other option..read go to school/office), its' back to point #2. Talk about vicious circles..bah!<br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>There are two images engraved in my mind related to rain which make me just love them so much more. One is in standard 5<sup>th</sup> I think. P’s mom used to come pick P and me up from school (This started after a boy started teasing me by saying ‘Maneater, maneater’..referring to my ‘Monitor’ badge..hehe..sounds so lame right?! and my sister was also not there as she was down with jaundice at that time). So aunty had told us to wait outside this big tree next to our school. It was the month of July, and it was pouring like crazy but us being obedient children, inspite of the rain, we just stood under the tree and waited for her to come. And as Murphy and I have janmon ka rishta-naata..aunty was late that day:)..happens! Nevertheless, P and I stood like idiots in the rain for around half and hour or more and were completely drenched (surprise-surprise)..after this, aunty told us to wait inside on days when it rains..Sparing this incident, I believe I have high degrees of common-sense..humph!</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>The next image..which is actually a whole lot of images..is of F and me on the bike (seeee..I finally mentioned you on my Oh-so-famous-blog..happppy?!:P)..I know rain is almost synonymous with Kerala and everything..but how, Oh Almighty how..did it always have to rain as soon as I perched my assets on his bike..Lord Indra with delirious pleasure would bless the route from my hostel to town (as we used to call it back in <st1:place st="on"><st1:state st="on">Cochin</st1:state></st1:place>;)) with rain like never before..we used to have no other option but to continue with the ride as there would hardly be any shelters. You know, it was like buckets full of water being thrown at us..sploosh..sploosh..and sploosh again..Oh my good Lord, thinking of it only makes me so mad..YES, I HATE RAIN! Of course, the person riding is the one who has to suffer the most..but what of the pillion rider who is extra-sensitive and riding with a fellow who just uses one contact lens? Sigh..(of relief of course!). On my visit home the next time, to be all prepared [me with all my foresight (wise-ass grin)], I brought along a rain coat..for the next fight..want to guess the color? ..It was yellow:D..I have a preety fotu of mine in that..but I guess that can be put up some other time..maybe for some comic relief or something..:D..aaj ke liye bas itna, baaki ??..adios..tc children..</span></p>Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-14292907863608541452008-02-27T02:09:00.000-08:002008-07-14T21:32:13.099-07:00Anybody there?<p style="font-style: italic;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">Hullo..I know this time its’ been longer than usual but I don’t presume I was being thoroughly missed eitherways. I don’t quite know what ignited me enough to write after this long {I think its’ a combination of being dead bored + reading umpteen number of blogs (Courtesy: Makku) + conversations with Bones}, but anyways, here it goes {I don’t know if I do my species (as in females) any good by taking this up}..</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>Women! We are as vain as one could possibly be, love all those who love us, we crave for attention, bask in the warmth of allll the love (read gifts..the more expensive, the better) showered upon us. A guy with a bike (during college days) and a car (during working ones) probably fall in the 'true love/Mr. Right/Never let go' category. Its' of course a different thing that the occurrence of this falling happens at regular intervals of say 1) End of school; 2) End of college; 3) Change of company/Wedlock with a totally different person altogether. But please ladies and gentlemen, I am definitely not the one who has set these intervals, the intervals are at ones’ own discretion based on ones' own set of rules varying from 'Long distance doesn’t work' to 'Sorry, there’s someone else (umm..richer and smarter than you I mean..throat clearing)'. The catch phrase-'There are many fish in the sea' is I guess an inscription on the extra X in our chromosomes as compared to our fawning other halves. </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>It's as simple as this. (Guys..read this part thoroughly).Women are suckers for guys who are dependable. Someone who can care for them, who can fulfill every whim and fancy of theirs {for eg. Ice-cream at 2 a.m. (If you don’t get this, your Bollywood/Tollywood gyaan ain’t something to be proud of my dear friend), who can get their shopping done from Ameerpet to Central, from Charminar to Begumpet without as much as an ounce of disgust or protest}, listen to them boasting/cribbing/bitching/whining endlessly as if there was no tomorrow. Basically, if you are equipped with a vehicle and are capable of pretending to be really listening and can nod your head at regular intervals in awe/appreciation when she’s boasting or with disgust when she’s bitching, you are set! Congratulations my dear bakra..uh oh..friend:-):-(..(mixed emoticons, hope you understand my predicament..sigh!)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>As cynical as I might have sounded, I don’t want to end up sounding judgmental. Neither am I going to take any sides. From experiences (personal as well as friends/acquaintances), I don’t think any of it is deliberate. In this short life of ours (another topic which I would love to write on), we are lucky to meet some and unlucky to meet some. Some of them become our cherished ones, while some you’d willingly throw off a cliff (ouch! I’m not so evil :-)). By saying that meeting new people, falling in love, ditching them or getting ditched is a cycle or part of life I might be wholly wrong..or perhaps partially right..but one thing is for sure, its' inevitable.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>For all the emancipation and the 'we don’t really need a man you know' that we women cry ourselves hoarse about, its' always nice to have a man by your side (Yes, yes this is the real 'Must Read' part boys). And not just for the 'driver' (haha..this is fun) and the money etc. part of it. For all the other real things too. For the shoulder you have when you are down in the dumps and want to cry out aloud, for how you don’t even need to tell how you're feeling about something, for the way he can make you feel special only the way he possibly could..Priceless! A girl who can love you for your worth and not your net worth is what should be for keeps. But then don’t worry, if she thinks you’re worth it, she won’t let you go..atleast anytime soon that is.. :-P</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>;-)</span> </p>Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-45912432808323812272007-10-11T01:09:00.000-07:002008-07-14T21:32:43.063-07:00The line..<span style="font-size:100%;">Below is the line between "<span style="font-style: italic;">self-respect</span>" and "<span style="font-style: italic;">ego</span>":<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Do you see it?..I don't!<br /><br />:-)</span>Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-83647658230452627642007-08-09T01:50:00.000-07:002008-07-14T21:33:13.872-07:00It's a heart..<span style="font-size:100%;">It's bound to hurt..:-)</span>Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-19824584438638473432007-07-26T04:17:00.000-07:002008-07-14T21:55:53.173-07:00By Request - Part I<p style="font-family: lucida grande;font-family:georgia;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">My previous post was posted on the 5<sup>th</sup> of July ...being the honest person that I am [: P]...I’ll tell you how I used to check if kissine bhoole bhatke iss nacheez ke blog par comment likha ho..well..that check was on an average..umm…once everyday [: P]...One fine day (as it always is)...I saw Mr. / Ms. Anonymous leave me one...</span></p> <p style="text-align: center; font-family: lucida grande;font-family:georgia;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p><b style="">old movies, new movies, reviews etc...<o:p></o:p></b></span></p> <p style="font-family: lucida grande;font-family:georgia;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>Well for one...I am not quite pro about writing such stuff. Of course I have my reasons but then I guess you’d already have read so many already..i guess I’d just end up sounding irritating...for one, it’s difficult for me to like a movie and not criticize...quite difficult...and then I’ve also not watched quite a few “must-watch” movies...</span></p> <p style="font-family: lucida grande;font-family:georgia;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>But when I asked for topics, Mr. / Ms. Anonymous was the one jisne meri thodi laaj rakhee..so this one’s for you..</span></p> <p style="font-family: lucida grande;font-family:georgia;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>The past few weeks I watched three movies...out of which “<span style="font-weight: bold;">Partner</span>” outdid itself...to displease and disgust me (but of course)..Phew...It sucked...BIGTIME! If anyone was to ask me...this would be one of the last movies I’d recommend. Thankfully I watched it in a local theatre...so it didn’t pinch all that much...it’s plain crass...and for people who’ve seen “Hitch”...stay away twice as more...you’d just feel sorry. But then, there was this one gentleman sitting behind us who just couldn’t stop rolling with laughter...so I guess it’s all up to one’s...ahem...(I guess I should try be polite now)...tastes;-)...but I do like the songs...very danceable<span style="">J</span>..I guess I don’t quite need to take up the acting abilities or the lack of it:-P of the lead actors...</span></p> <p style="font-family: lucida grande;font-family:georgia;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>Then there was “<span style="font-weight: bold;">Naqaab</span>” which I really, really wanted to watch...what with the title of “<span style="font-style: italic;">The most shocking thriller of the year</span>” title and all...but what of it?...I was filled with sheer disappointment…The new girl Urvashi’s not bad...Akshaye and Bobby as usual...but I was definitely expecting something a 108 times better in terms of story (that kind that would jolt me...well, the title kept running across my mind you see)...I waited ki ab kuch hoga, ab kuch hoga...but alas...moreover the movie’s predictable eventually..so, so much for that... I remember “Shabd” was another movie that thoroughly disappointed me...</span></p> <p style="font-family: lucida grande;font-family:georgia;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">Then there was “</span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Diehard 4</span>” which surprise, surprise...I DIDN’T want to watch (well am sure the person who asked me for reviews must be cursing his/her bad judgment)...I even offered my ticket to a friend who wanted to watch it badly...but then he politely refused and I saw my first diehard movie (OMG, OMG..am I a kalanak on planet Earth?)...and boy was it fun?! Have always loved Bruce Willis...what an attitude!...now I’m all eager to watch the previous parts...all the sequences gave rise to this recurrent thought of mine...”When do we make such movies?”...anyways, this was definitely paisa vasool stuff...must watch!</span></p> <p style="font-family: lucida grande;font-family:georgia;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">I am going to stop with this much now as I’m a lil scared that I sounded boring...just let me know ok? So until next time...ta ta..</span></p>Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-14181882307539618732007-07-05T02:18:00.000-07:002008-07-14T21:35:57.364-07:00People..<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p></span><span style="font-size:100%;">After yet another long, long sabbatical..I’m baak! If only I had some amount of patience, I would have loved to write regularly..even if you like it or not:P..</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>People (not many, mind it) have asked me why I haven’t posted in quite sometime. My lame answer (which is actually not quite so lame) is that I don’t have no good topics. Suggestions would be welcomed with *%*&#@..can’t quite get the right words you see..it’s a dangerous world out there:P..alright,alright, I'm stopping right now.. Eagerly waiting for atleast a few of you to come back to me with any possible topics..Lets’ see if I’m gutsy <span style=""></span>or colorful enough to take a stand on em and write..</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">Hoping not to disappoint..I’ll be waiting..</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>PS: I know there’d be people who’d say my life @ CUSAT..well, all I can say is..All in good time folks!</span></p>Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-11643908182624897472007-05-10T00:05:00.000-07:002008-07-14T21:36:39.686-07:00Deepu..<span style="font-size:100%;"><br />I don’t quite remember when I first saw him. When I joined my company, Infor, I met a bunch of these guys from MEC, a neighboring college. These guys had joined the same time as I had.<br />11.00 am is a sacred time for us here. Spells out “Coffee” for us you see. It was one of these breaks that I remember talking to him. We exchanged our numbers that day and I remember storing it as <a href="http://whizlog.blogspot.com/">Deepak E. Prakash</a>..Phew! Don’t exactly know when that changed to Deepu for me…From stories I heard from Makku and Kartik, this guy was “supposed” to be a woman-charmer. As I once asked him, how come it never worked on me? He replied within the same instant..he had never tried:-P<br /><br />Anyways, this idiot of a guy (whose passions in life are “photography, photography and photography (put Java somewhere too)”) is moving to Bangalore. And from the time I heard of it, I guess I unconsciously “tried not to think about it”(my favorite line back in college..Manu, yaad hai na?). But now it’s too close..his going away..And I guess one just can’t avoid the fact that he won’t be around very soon. I must confess that I have had the best times of my life here in Hyderabad with these people. And he’s so going to be missed.<br /><br />The first person here who took me around on his blue Pulsar..the time we both went and discovered the “tawa murgh” in Angeethi..the TV stand you lifted till our house..the way I like my Sub..the dupatta shopping in Ameerpet..talking about ahem stuff..the day you lost your bike keys..the list will never end..am not trying to sound grateful or anything..it’s just that these were all special times for me..very, very special..and I’m so going to miss you Deepu..Love you loads..umma:-)<br /></span>Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-40368461029767025992006-11-27T02:52:00.000-08:002008-07-14T21:37:10.192-07:00I believe..<span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family:georgia;"><br />I believe in the goodness of mankind,</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe in the ecstasy after "<span style="font-style: italic;">the find</span>"</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe in "<span style="font-style: italic;">happily ever after</span>",</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe in the joyful sound of laughter</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe in sunshine after the rain,</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe in "<span style="font-style: italic;">no pain,no gain</span>"</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe in miracles by the hands of the Lord,</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe in harmony and accord</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe in the truth in her eyes,</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe in his empty, white lies</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe in beauty that lies beneath,</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe sorrow exists underneath</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe in life after death,</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe in "<span style="font-style: italic;">to forgive and to forget</span>"</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe in the potent power of love,</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe it comes from God above</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe in gentle touch and caress,</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe life moves on, no matter how much stress</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe in the wheel of life,</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe there is reason behind pain and strife</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe we are meant to be,</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I believe.. in <span style="font-weight: bold;">you</span> and <span style="font-weight: bold;">me</span>:)!</span><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;"> </span></span>Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-13664336388743288412006-11-27T01:07:00.000-08:002008-07-14T21:37:38.498-07:00This would have been my first post..<span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family:georgia;"><br />I write this as I</span></span><span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" >actually</span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family:georgia;"> have nothing better to do.For that matter, I started blogging because I </span></span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" >had</span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family:georgia;"> nothing better to do. Honestly speaking, I never really cared much for blogging.(Must have first come acr</span></span><span style=";font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" >oss the term "blogging" in some article in 'India Today' a few years ago..).I generally didn't find it "interesting" enough to go through what goes on people's lives on a day-to-day basis, but then there are a few absolutely awesome blogs which actually talk about stuff that makes you think, that mak</span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family:georgia;">es you smile, and want to read more:)..</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">My roomie in my "good-old" engg. days used to blog(still does; checkout:</span></span><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" >http://dgrailspeaks.blogspot.com</span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family:georgia;">) .Didn't really fancy the idea of coming up with one myself,reasons being : I'm too lazy(so you can imagine how jobless I would be now..) and also the fact that I'd be constantly judging myself. But then the few times the idea did race across my mind, I had thought of what my first blog would be about(now that's not quite possible due to being over excited after writing the first one, I just had to post it asap..).</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">So here goes "My first post",as it would have been(with a few modifications,but of course):</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I'd never want my readers to:</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">1) Get bored while reading any of my posts.</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">2) Find the articles repetitive.</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">3) Lacking in content(though this one surely does).</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I'd want my readers to:</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">1) Give me an honest feedback</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">2) Grow in abundance;)</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">What I would say to expect from my (sometimes mindless) blog would be honesty. I believe in straight from the heart and I would say the whole purpose of writing would be defeated if I am not honest about what I'm going to write. So I hope to meet a few, if not many in this journey of the writer in me..do encourage!</span></span>Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7311513769311899555.post-992533680678423212006-11-21T02:57:00.000-08:002008-07-14T21:38:12.571-07:00Being a "Fraud Mallu"<span style=";font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" ><span style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Note</span> : I hope none of this hurts anyone, and am proud to be a mallu billi:)</span><br /><br />My father moved to Delhi in 1972 (he got a job in the Central Goverment there; I guess he didn't follow the very mallu tradition of going to the Gulf and am pretty happy about that). My parents got married in 1981 and after that my amma too moved to saddi dilli.Before that my dad used to stay with (surprise surprise) other Malayalees.(I find Mallus and Punjabis similar to crocodiles : they tend to be very "regionalistic". Whenever they meet another of their kind (read Malayalee/Punjabi), there is this instant bonding that takes place..its something so inevitable..followed by the other inevitables,for example THE question "<span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;">naad evide</span>?</span>"(where's your place)...Anyways, this obviously meant that my sister and I were brought up (not born) in Delhi itself.[ Place of Birth : Bekal, Hosdurg ]<br /><br />We used to get a summer break of about one and a half months (which increased to two later once mercury started rising year after year) and we would go to Keralam then. We didn't spend the entire duration there because of two reasons : parents don't have summer breaks and the fact that we used to get a mountain load of "holiday homework". Now that, used to be some task. We (as in didi and me) would try finish off as much as possible before leaving but most definitely, the night before school re-opened used to some fun!<br /><br />Our most (and only) used mode of transport was the Indian Railways, so that equated to two and a half days of travelling:).<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Mangla Express in the months of May and June</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> (towards Kerala) = 108 crores of Mallus travelling with their *2 kids + loads of delhi roadside maal (on demand or as gifts;) ) + kaaapiiiii...</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Mangla Express in the months of June and July</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> (towards H.Nizamuddin) = 108 crores of Mallus travelling with their *2 kids + chaaks/cartons bursting with thengas,chakkas,banana chips,par-boiled rice,..... + kaaapiiiii..</span><br /><br />These journeys used to be pretty fun (except for the heat part) because we'd meet other kids and angane jolly adichita we'd not know the time go by...but that would be max for a day(kids tend to be a restless lot)..because after that is when the kid starts the chant : "Papa,kab pahunchenge?"..It used to be much worse for us as Kasargode used to be the second last stop then..(As Murphy had it, Cochin became the last one once I went to CUSAT:):)..kismet mein likha hai,ab kya kar sakte hain..).<br /><br />Finally after the two and a half days of sitting in the chukk-chukk vandi..we make it to our birthplace..(Actually when we get up on the third day, it's pretty awesome cos Kerala has started then and it's so,so green and pretty outside..)..In the station, we'd have my Ammamma, Achamma , "Mooch waale*" uncle, and mama(depending on whichever one is town then)..and it used to feel so good.<br /><br />We'd always go to my Achamma's house first(thank God for that as it's close to the station) and rush to take a bath(trains can make you put on weight - one to two kilos of dirt i.e...yuck!)..after that, begins the fun..<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">attack no. 1</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> </span>: reshu(my sister) ethra melanjnu..(yes my dears, believe it or faint..my sister's skinnier than yours truly)...chota ethra karathu...blah blah..blah blah..<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">attack no. 2</span> : a mountain of boiled rice(which you better finish) and food cooked in coconut oil(boy-oh-boy..that was ultra disastrous..but as they say,what goes around,comes around..well,it did! 4 years in CUSAT and living next to chetta who used to prepare his oh-so sumptuous delicacies(read meals with fish fry cooked ONLY in coconut oil)..the very smell would make us nauseous and its still true for my sister who shrieks loud enough to break any glass even if she gets a whiff of it.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">attack no. 3</span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"> </span>: say parram(banana)..(i say)param...<span style="font-weight: bold;">parrrram</span>..<span style="font-weight: bold;">rra</span>..<span style="font-weight: bold;">rraa</span>..(i say)param...fine,say palla(tooth)..(i say)pella....[background score : peals of laughter]<br /><br />Hmm, I won't say I've improved much after that but I think parram is now quite manageable:). Another thing that they'd do is make me talk:)..and obviously, ALL of it had to be in mal. Come to think of it, I feel like a specimen cos they'd make me stand in the centre and make me talk(the "make " part's not all that difficult). That's when my Achamma would turn chinki..(thanks to laughing too hard). Of course I used to get new pet names each time I'd visit. The two best ones would be : "thota vaadi"(touch-me-not) and "jagajilli"..(my sister was "vadivellu" and "nongal"(a variety of fish which has only bones);))..<br /><br />In my ammamma's house..it used to be a different story altogether..there my sister and I just could not keep our feet on the floor because of the poyia..so we'd walk with clawed feet and that was another "hahaha" topic there(it still is)..but it used to be loads of fun there as it's a joint family and have loads of cousins there..we'd all sleep together, go play in the beach and also get up with pain(=lice) which would be so,so difficult to get rid of....<br /><br />Also,a visit to Kerala would mean a visit to the local doctor there cos (God only knows why), the bludy mosquitoes had some weird kind of affinity towards my sister and me and we'd get these bites which would end up turning into mini balloons..so odomos was a good friend to carry those days..thankfully their louve seems to have died now..<br /><br />When I got admission in CUSAT, I really don't remember being very apprehensive (but then I rarely am)..but that meant leaving familiy, friends and Delhi. Also, it meant going to where I came from (literally). It is but obvious that when you have been in the same place for all your life, you get used to everything like it is there. I'd be lying if I said that I absolutely had no problems in adjusting in Kerala. Different people, different thinking..( I'll be writing about this for sure,so will leave it at that)..<br /><br />But then honestly speaking, I did not turn any bit more Malayaleer in those 4 years(my Baby Elamma though begs to differ on that count). My roomies were all fraud mallus too(birds of the same feathers,flock together..very true), so speaking in Mal was almost never..So whenever I used to go to Kasargode per Sem,i used to hear about "naal kollam ayitta ippallum malayalam padchitila(4 years and you've still not learnt to speak malayalam)..hmm...<br /><br />One of the best times are when people,assuming that you are a northie,say something about you in Mal.It has happened in my first year Engg.,Maths class when my Sir was royally bitching about North Indians and how they don't value their parents money, don't have no manners etc. etc. and it was only in his last class that he found out that we{Dhiv(ya)-ex roomie and I) were mallus:)..Boy,you should have seen the look on dear Anoclit Sir's face..he was so shocked.Then they were times when we needed to go to the SOE office and we'll be speaking in Mal but then why,why would anyone "listen" to the words..it's funny how people actually HEAR what they want to..and so all replies directed at us would be in Hindi:)..<br /><br />But honestly speaking, what I enjoy the most is the look on people's faces when I tell them I'm from Kerala..it's too good..First I make them guess, and the most common ones would be UP, Punjab(Kashmiri once..OMG!)..and when I let the cat out of the bag(sorry about using this, but couldn't help it..sheepish grin:))..they are like..WHAT?! I don't know what they expect a Mallu to look like..Anyways, this is usually followed by the "Are both your parents Malayalees(and I think of both my paavam parents faces..)"..and i'm like what the ...ya..ahuh!<br /><br />Coming to something that irritates me to the core..the unconscious manner in which an "H" is added to all names in the South in almost all places possible..I think I must have tried till my 3rd Sem to correct my teachers etc. that I was Deepti and NOT Deept(h)i..but the why,why would anyone ever listen to that..After that I simply gave up..(Btw,I still face the "H" problem:P)..<br /><br />But then "fraud" or not..I love being this mix..You get the best of both worlds you see;)(not necessarily at all times..but chalta hai boss)..Call it a hybrid breed or whatever, its fun:)!<br /><br />Before I end this, I would want to add this for Bones sake : "<span style="font-style: italic;">Shundari,shundari onnu orangi vaa..</span>."(People,you should hear me sing this;))...<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></span>Dip Teahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02798094040275511981noreply@blogger.com21